| | As you all know, I broke up with my boyfriend (Brian Blanda) on Dec.
3rd. What you don't know, is that a friend (Donald) from my childhood
has decided that he wants me so for the last 3 days or so we've been
talking about getting together. And I was very seriously considering
it. He's a good man with good background who is absolutely fantastic to
his women.
But tonight I got online and Brian (who hasn't been
online in a long time, and who hasn't talked to me at all) is online
and 'pounces' on me as soon as he can. In customary Brian style,
leading up to his point by chewing the fat and talking about
not-important stuff. Then he drops the bomb. I said some stuff to
instigate it. Such as "Just before I dumped you; Why didn't you want me
anymore?" He responded to the effect of "I do want you" along with what
I have compiled into a paragraph below.
"Heidi, I'm sorry that
I've been such a jerk to you lately. When you dumped me I thought that
it wouldn't be that big a deal. That you were just a woman. But I am
going crazy without you. I never realized what a diamond you are until
you weren't there to light up my life anymore. I want you to come back;
and this time I want you to be my one and only woman. I can't do this
without you. Please come back?"
All the while that he was saying
all those things I compiled up there, I was reading him the riot act. I
was beyond upset because up until he did this, I was not doing to bad
with the break up. But now its really bothering me. Not the fact that I
gave him an ultimatum, or that I laid out the requirements for us to
make it work out on the table for him to push around and think about.
No, what I am upset about is that just when I find a really sweet man
(Donald) and he starts to believe that he can trust me and
everything... this goes and happens.
Opinions would be welcome. Though I can't promise I will follow all of the advice given. |
| | Posted 12/27/2008 7:36 PM - 25 Views - 2 eProps - 2 comments
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